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Welcome to 3000 Orgasms - the newsletter for people craving an expansive, empowered reality for their sex lives. This is a space where pleasure and self-discovery are at the heart of every story, and where NSFW conversations are embraced, not avoided.
I’m Rebecca Ferguson, a sex and relationship coach and author who’s walked the complex path from a sexless marriage to a multi-orgasmic wonderland. My journey taught me that deep pleasure is possible at any age and stage of life, and I’m here to share that journey with you - honestly, boldly, and with a good dose of humour.
What You’ll Get as a Subscriber
As a subscriber to 3000 Orgasms, you’ll join a community that believes pleasure is a vital, transformative force. Here’s what you can expect:
Free Subscribers will receive occasional posts about self-discovery, intimacy, and the surprising lessons I've learned along the way.
Paying Subscribers enjoy deeper dives, my most thoughtful writing and more intimate posts every two weeks, filled with insights on topics like igniting passion, embracing your desires, exploring intimacy after major life changes, and becoming multi-orgasmic. Every month I download my numbers from my sex tracking app and provide a summary of the month’s sexual encounters and the stories behind the data. I also have a paying subscriber chat where you can direct message me on a regular (reasonable) basis and nerd out on all things sex and relationships. Paying subscribers also get peeks at my book, 3000 Orgasms: How I Went from a Sexless Marriage to a Multi-Orgasmic Wonderland.
Founding Members will receive all paying subscriber benefits plus a one hour sex or relationship coaching session with me.
Through each post, I’ll bring you stories, actionable advice, and insights that can help you rediscover intimacy and pleasure in your own life. If you’re ready to break free of old patterns, explore your sexuality, and feel more alive, you’re in the right place.
This is one of my jobs. A lot of work, as well as my heart and soul, goes into it. I believe in an ethos of paying people for their work and am a paying subscriber to more than ten Substacks. If you love my work, get value out of it, and believe in paying people for their work, consider a paying subscription.
Why I Started “3000 Orgasms”
After a challenging divorce as I turned 40, I embarked on a journey to rediscover what true intimacy and fulfilment could mean. Over time, I redefined love and sexual satisfaction on my own terms. In 3000 Orgasms, I take you on an extraordinary journey from the confines of my marriage to the liberating joy of becoming a multi-orgasmic woman, recounting the 3000 orgasms I experienced over the course of one year.
This newsletter exists to guide and inspire people like you - those who may be feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready to redefine what pleasure can mean. I’m here to show you that it’s never too late to reconnect with yourself and embrace the powerful, pleasurable possibilities within.
Here’s where to start your journey with 3000 Orgasms - an archive of all the content to date:
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Welcome, pleasure seekers and curious minds! If you've just discovered 3000 Orgasms or if you've been following my journey but want to explore content you might have missed, you've landed in exactly the right place.
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About Me
I’m a sex, dating and certified relationship coach and author dedicated to helping others navigate the worlds of love, sex, and relationships. After my own challenging divorce as I turned 40, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery that led me to redefine intimacy and sexual fulfilment. Now post-menopausal and a survivor of uterine cancer, I continue to explore and celebrate my sexuality.
With compassion and honesty, I share my insights as a “data nerd” who tracked 3000 orgasms in a year, and who believes in the power of connection and pleasure.
You can read more about me on my 3000 Orgasms website.
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Disclaimer
This content is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered medical, psychological, health, or wellness advice of any kind.
Information is current at the time of publication but may become outdated, so please verify details with the most current sources available.
Do not make health-related decisions based on this content alone.
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What I share here is meant to spark reflection: a conversation starter to help you explore what’s right for you.
Bec 💋
