Bec's 3000 Orgasms

Bec's 3000 Orgasms

Are Men The More Visual Creatures?

The Science Weighs In

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Rebecca Ferguson
Jul 18, 2025
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A couple of weeks ago, I was messaging with a guy on a dating app who, in between photos of his abs and overly confident chat, dropped this little gem:

“Men are just more visual. We see everything during sex — the whole penetration thing — it’s like built-in porn.”

Now, I’ve heard variations of that line befo…

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