My Erotic Archetype

How Knowledge of my Arousal Pathways Has Enhanced My Sex Life

Before I dive into my personal journey, let me tell you about this incredible tool that changed everything for me. The Erotic Blueprint Quiz (not an affiliate link) was created by Miss Jaiya, an internationally recognised somatic sexologist who's spent over 25 years studying how our bodies actually experience pleasure and arousal. She's written bestselling books like "Red Hot Touch" and "Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied," and has coached hundreds of private clients through her groundbreaking research.

Miss Jaiya. Image courtesy of MissJaiya.com

What makes Jaiya's work so revolutionary is that it's based on what the body actually tells us about pleasure, rather than what we think we should want or what society tells us is "normal." Through her years of clinical research and working with clients, she discovered five distinct erotic types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shape Shifter. Each type has different pathways to arousal, different ways of experiencing pleasure, and different needs for sexual satisfaction.

The quiz itself costs just $17, and honestly, it's one of the best investments I've ever made in my sex life. It takes about 10-15 minutes to complete, and the detailed report you receive afterwards is incredibly comprehensive. For the price of a decent bottle of wine, you get insights that could transform your entire relationship with pleasure and intimacy. I can't recommend it highly enough.

Below, Paying Subscribers get the full story of my own Erotic Blueprint and how it has transformed my sex life.

What Paying Subscribers Unlock:

• Complete Monthly Statistics: Data, patterns, and personal reflections on what worked (and what didn't)

• Behind-the-Scenes Content: Unfiltered thoughts and feelings that I don't share anywhere else

• Extended Essays: Deep dives into techniques, relationships, and sexual philosophy

• Personal Q&A Access: Direct message conversations where I answer your questions about pleasure, relationships, and sexual wellness (while I can't respond daily, I prioritise meaningful exchanges with subscribers)

Coming up in the next three months, articles covering intimate topics including:

• What gets me off

• My favourite sex positions

• How I masturbate

• My first visit to a sex club

This is one of my jobs and a lot of effort, as well as my heart and soul, goes into it. I believe in an ethos of paying people for their work and am a paying subscriber to more than ten Substacks. If you love my work, get value out of it, and believe in paying people for their work, consider a paying subscription.

If you receive value from my work but are unable to commit to a monthly subscription, consider buying me a coffee.

Join me on this journey of discovery. Let's continue breaking taboos and embracing pleasure together.