My Favourite Sex Positions

From primal to passionate - here’s what gets me off and why

Let’s Talk Positions, Shall We?

I’m not here to give you a Cosmo-style list of “10 Wild Positions to Blow His Mind.” This isn’t a clickbait countdown. This is real talk, about the positions I come back to again and again; and why.

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Because when it comes to sex, the position is about what makes you feel something. It’s about what unlocks that delicious mix of surrender and power, connection and release. It can also derive strongly from your Erotic Archetype.

Behind the paywall, I’m sharing every delicious detail about the sex positions that really work for me.

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Coming up in the next few months, articles covering intimate topics including:

• What gets me off

• How I masturbate

• My first visit to a sex club

• My erotic archetype and what it means for my sex life

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