Thanks Jennifer, I’d be happy to send you a copy for review, although the AroAce community is not a primary target audience for my book. You may find it a frustrating read at times as it does make some assumptions about who the reader is and what they desire. But yes, by all means register for an ARC on my website at https://www.3000orgasms.com/arc-application
I beg your pardon. I come off as if I'm speaking with authority there. That is hardly the case. I offer purely anecdotal evidence and uneducated opinion. Please accept my sincere apology for not mentioning those qualifications.
I'm of the opinion, anorgasmia is something caused by either trauma or shame that has occurred before, sometimes long before the intimacy with that woman's current partner women who have PTSD, women who are trauma bonders, women negotiating hyper grief.
A partner can definitely end most certainly should be there for that situation but the normal sex therapy isn't going to touch it.
A topic much deeper than the run-of-the-mill intimacy baggage.
That said, I sincerely appreciate your thoughts and what you have to say about any and all things clitornati. 🙈✌️🫵💪🙏
Congrats, Rebecca! Beautiful job with your introduction. You set the goal and the tone with clear intention while reducing any concerns about embarrassment or shame. I would offer to review the book for you but my bandwidth is a little tight right now. I wish you the best of luck and will pay attention to when it's available for purchase. Best, Shelby
Thank you Shelby. I appreciate your kind words and totally get the bandwidth thing. We all seem to be juggling a lot at this time of year. Best wishes for a relaxing holiday period. 🤗
Am I listening to the right thing? I open the item here in Substack and there is a play button at the top. Is anybody else hearing a male voice? Suddenly i’m wondering if it’s one of my settings. Will go look now…
And, kindly forgive if I'm being a pest about this... chalk it up to learning how to use Substack?? Your work absolutely fascinates me me nothing in the way of a tech glitch on Substack is gonna diminish that. By all means, Carry On Cumming!
Thanks Paul, I don’t know why this is a male voice for you. Hopefully others will chime in and confirm one way or another. I do find there are occasional glitches with this app/site as it grows and develops. Sorry again, I would find a male voice odd in the context of the material too.
Obsessed with the tracking or with having lots of orgasms? I definitely have shown a predilection for tracking data in other aspects of my life before (tracked my two kids’ breastfeeds in an app), so yes I expect I’ve got some sort of neurodivergent focus on that. As for having lots of orgasms, I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed. It happened organically, as I outline in the book. I didn’t know I was tracking that high until I got to the end of the year.
Thanks so much Kerry for the feedback. I had an amazing developmental editor who really helped me nail who my target reader is. The funny thing is I was aiming at women but nearly half of my Substack subscribers are men. Everyone is welcome!
Wondering if you are interested in feedback/ review from an AroAce person? I have sexual feelings, but do not feel attraction.
Thanks Jennifer, I’d be happy to send you a copy for review, although the AroAce community is not a primary target audience for my book. You may find it a frustrating read at times as it does make some assumptions about who the reader is and what they desire. But yes, by all means register for an ARC on my website at https://www.3000orgasms.com/arc-application
Thanks for reaching out. Happy New Year 🥳
Happy New Year! Thanks for replying, and I filled out the website page😊
Thank you. I’ll make sure you’re on the list when ARCs go out - around 13 January. 🙏
I beg your pardon. I come off as if I'm speaking with authority there. That is hardly the case. I offer purely anecdotal evidence and uneducated opinion. Please accept my sincere apology for not mentioning those qualifications.
No worries at all. We’re all still learning, or at least I hope I am, every day.
Most gracious of you. I am much obliged.
(That last phrase is sacred to me. I rarely use it. Only in and with the utmost sincerity).
I'm truly grateful for your open mind and ridiculous example of tolerance.
Thank you 🙏
I'm of the opinion, anorgasmia is something caused by either trauma or shame that has occurred before, sometimes long before the intimacy with that woman's current partner women who have PTSD, women who are trauma bonders, women negotiating hyper grief.
A partner can definitely end most certainly should be there for that situation but the normal sex therapy isn't going to touch it.
A topic much deeper than the run-of-the-mill intimacy baggage.
That said, I sincerely appreciate your thoughts and what you have to say about any and all things clitornati. 🙈✌️🫵💪🙏
Thank you for your feedback 😊
🙈✌️
Congrats, Rebecca! Beautiful job with your introduction. You set the goal and the tone with clear intention while reducing any concerns about embarrassment or shame. I would offer to review the book for you but my bandwidth is a little tight right now. I wish you the best of luck and will pay attention to when it's available for purchase. Best, Shelby
Thank you Shelby. I appreciate your kind words and totally get the bandwidth thing. We all seem to be juggling a lot at this time of year. Best wishes for a relaxing holiday period. 🤗
ummmm…. why is the audio version of this being read by a MALE voice?? It’s very disorienting. I can’t listen to it.
Oh sorry about that Paul, I'll check my settings and sort out. Thanks for the heads up and sorry for your inconvenience.
Yeah, I figured it had to be a setting somewhere… hope it’s easily fixed.
I checked my settings and it’s set to a female voice? Maybe a Substack glitch? Sorry again.
Am I listening to the right thing? I open the item here in Substack and there is a play button at the top. Is anybody else hearing a male voice? Suddenly i’m wondering if it’s one of my settings. Will go look now…
And, kindly forgive if I'm being a pest about this... chalk it up to learning how to use Substack?? Your work absolutely fascinates me me nothing in the way of a tech glitch on Substack is gonna diminish that. By all means, Carry On Cumming!
Thanks Paul, I don’t know why this is a male voice for you. Hopefully others will chime in and confirm one way or another. I do find there are occasional glitches with this app/site as it grows and develops. Sorry again, I would find a male voice odd in the context of the material too.
A touch over eight per day average, for an entire year? Sounds like you're making up for lost time!
Are you open as a possibility that you're a bit obsessed?
Obsessed with the tracking or with having lots of orgasms? I definitely have shown a predilection for tracking data in other aspects of my life before (tracked my two kids’ breastfeeds in an app), so yes I expect I’ve got some sort of neurodivergent focus on that. As for having lots of orgasms, I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed. It happened organically, as I outline in the book. I didn’t know I was tracking that high until I got to the end of the year.
Your candid forthrighteousness is beautiful!!!
Good question! 😏
I guess, part of me wants to say both. I mean, that rivals most 14-year-old boys. 😂😜🫵💪🌹
Thanks so much Kerry for the feedback. I had an amazing developmental editor who really helped me nail who my target reader is. The funny thing is I was aiming at women but nearly half of my Substack subscribers are men. Everyone is welcome!