Bec's 3000 Orgasms

Bec's 3000 Orgasms

The Demisexual Man

When sex without connection leaves them cold

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Rebecca Ferguson
Apr 01, 2025
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After my separation in 2016, I dove headfirst into the dating pool with certain expectations about men and sex. What I discovered challenged everything I thought I knew, both personally and professionally.

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