Chemistry implies a magical force that makes the sexual connection feel effortless whereas, as you say, if it’s not instant it can be nurtured. Personally I’ve rarely found a sexual partner for whom there wasn’t an initial spark but I have friends that definitely have.
3000 orgasms in one year? Unless it was a leap year, that's 8.219..and the rest orgasms a day. Could you even walk at the end of the year? That's impressive.
I have had such similar life experiences and I love the way you put this into words. Emotional safety is everything and it is the common thread when I reflect on what have been my best experiences.
Chemistry implies a magical force that makes the sexual connection feel effortless whereas, as you say, if it’s not instant it can be nurtured. Personally I’ve rarely found a sexual partner for whom there wasn’t an initial spark but I have friends that definitely have.
I’ve mostly had an instant spark too, but have been able to develop it with one or two partners, with great results.
3000 orgasms in one year? Unless it was a leap year, that's 8.219..and the rest orgasms a day. Could you even walk at the end of the year? That's impressive.
Thanks Geoff, just saw this. We were in lockdown a fair bit of the year, so that helped!
I have had such similar life experiences and I love the way you put this into words. Emotional safety is everything and it is the common thread when I reflect on what have been my best experiences.
Thanks Rebecca and glad to know it resonated with you. 💕
Agreed!