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Suzanne Noble's avatar

Chemistry implies a magical force that makes the sexual connection feel effortless whereas, as you say, if it’s not instant it can be nurtured. Personally I’ve rarely found a sexual partner for whom there wasn’t an initial spark but I have friends that definitely have.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

I’ve mostly had an instant spark too, but have been able to develop it with one or two partners, with great results.

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Geoff Wakelam's avatar

3000 orgasms in one year? Unless it was a leap year, that's 8.219..and the rest orgasms a day. Could you even walk at the end of the year? That's impressive.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

Thanks Geoff, just saw this. We were in lockdown a fair bit of the year, so that helped!

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Rebecca's avatar

I have had such similar life experiences and I love the way you put this into words. Emotional safety is everything and it is the common thread when I reflect on what have been my best experiences.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

Thanks Rebecca and glad to know it resonated with you. 💕

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Vandal Salvage's avatar

Agreed!

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