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Ralph Leonardi's avatar

I’m 71, my wife is 68. We’ve been married over 50 years. We haven’t had sex in about 30 years. I’m the one with the higher sex drive. In all this time, she’s only complained a couple of times about it. I deal with it with porn & masturbation. Watching people do things I know I’ll never get to do, is a bittersweet existence.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

I’m so sorry to read this Ralph, even though I know you’re far from alone in your experience. I hope my content goes some way to helping you in your current reality. 🫂

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John Bowditch's avatar

An important article. Badly needed by many people. Thank you.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

Thanks John. I sense it is needed too.

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GS-z-14-1's avatar

Thank-you for this. Please consider speaking to situations in which this issue emerged on day one. Also the loss of all trust in the other as a sexual partner.

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Rebecca Ferguson's avatar

Thanks for the feedback - I’ve encountered this in my work before and will be sure to address it in the future.

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